The value of being genuinely heard is priceless yet means the world to us. One prospers and grows, is free to ask questions, and dares to face relational obstacles confidently. Given the ability to carry a voice is life giving as we deliver our thoughts, our feelings, our essence of personality, and a representation of our culture to those around us. When each individual is welcomed on the same playing field of expression much is gained and respect has an opportunity to be reciprocated equally.
Unfortunately when our power to speak openly is muted or walked upon unjustly it leads to brokenness of healthy communication and greater conflict. Many wars have broken out for these reasons where violence became, and still becomes, a way to regain power instead of words and death fosters a way to measure success.
Being silenced can push a person over the edge and desperation may erupt louder than truth. Boiling up as anger builds like a pressure cooker on the brink of unrepairable disaster. Irrational thoughts become our friend and our actions become our enemy. Being forcefully shut down causes our minds and bodies to short circuit until our needs are met and a sense of safety returns.
I have personally experienced both sides of this equation. Being invited to share anything rationally with acceptance or not being welcome to declare or explore the facets of who I am. One leads to equality and determination to brainstorm answers without judgement and the other leads to kayos and anger where defences attempt to self protect. Ideally I prefer the communications styles that lead to love rather than death and am on a journey in learning how to empower myself and those who find themselves fearfully speechless.
Advocacy for self and others is paramount for a healthy family, community, nation, and world. Lets be on the lookout for ways we can extend to ourselves and others the chance to be heard within a safe and respectful atmosphere. Joining together for the quest of truth to be heard and the quest for love to set those in bondage free. Identifying better communication skills and knowing where boundaries and accountability have their place. Living for peace rather than leaching power.
